Tuesday, August 29, 2017

Solemnization





All went well and time to enjoy the kampong dishes...bismillah...






Pernikahan Boi & Apple

My brother in law wedding on Sat 29 July at 1pm.Held in the bride's home at Segar Road.Fresh garden wedding theme with gift exchange from the groom.









Polyclinic Appt

Shots of mak medical appointment in CCK Polyclinic.A few months ago when bapak was hospitalized in TTSH.Time past swiftly and so many events took place in my life this year.

Monday, August 28, 2017

7 Days Later

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Visited bapak grave in Pusara Aman.Location is convenient and 5 mins walk from the mosque.
Al-Fateha may you be placed with the believers.Aamiin.

Farewell My Dearest Bapak








Sadly,after the oaths taken at my residence in front of a lawyer,2 hours later bapak coughed out blood and his cough sounds chesty.I called the ambulance on that morning at 12.30am on 18 Aug 2017 for him to be rush to NTFGH.He was warded in Isolation unit and not well with every 5 minutes of coughing and spitting of blood.I was paranoid seeing him suffer and in great pain and feeling breatheless.Ward doctor gave him cough syrup,morphine and oxygen mask to make him relax while they are ordering his units of blood.The cancer progressed very rapidly and nothing can be done to cure him.Medication only helps him to ease the pain but not CURE.He complaint of pain and tiredness due to his cough and gasping for oxygen...the crucial moment where his organs declined and I calm him down by reciting verses from the quran and told him to rest his eyes.Minutes later,bapak passed out and the monintor failed to detect his heart reading.

Medical staffs came to his rescue and CPR was given but he was dying.His heart beat was very low and 10 mins later he passed away peacefully and the ECG equipment reading was a straight line.Bapak was pronounced dead at 8.45am.

On that sorrowful morning,we arranged a burial to be done and everything goes smoothly.Alhamdulilah...although he is to be miss forever and taking care of him is not complicated when I still have my activities and hold a weekend job.Time is too short being his caregiver and mak as the prime caregiver will miss every moments of care when he was alive.Al-Fateha.


Capturing Moments


Shots and poses of bapak captured on mak's handphone.The moment to be miss and the time to be cherished.Should have spend more time with him when we have known he be leaving us so soon afetr the relapse of his lymphoma cancer.

NTFGH

Bapak was admitted again while I was on duty.I made a call to ambulance for him and rushed to NTFGH after I end work at 9pm.He look stable although his blood count is low.We left the hospital around 1am as bapak still not warded and the waiting is unsure.I received a phone call from the staff nurse 3 hours later where bapak was warded and condition stable at the moment.







Clearance

Managed to clear the items for the night after our Vivo City trip.I bought my track pants there and there is a purpose of my shopping there.








Last Selfie

My last selfie with bapak before I go to Vivo City and clearance of items in Pending Road.

Power Of Attorney

Collecting the POA document at Encik Rahman law firm for the first HDB appt on 28 July 2017.The POA was done in my residence.The cost is $300 for the lawyer transport and documentation.Office is located at Orange Tee Building next to Toa Payoh HDB Hub.Bought a PARKER ball point pen for the appointment.Feeling confident and all set to go.